今天，刚看完了港剧《绝代商娇》大结局，happy ending =D 挺喜欢黄子华的，应该是从《栋笃神探》这部剧开始的吧。觉得他是个有另类又有个性的男演员。
《绝》里，爱情专家唐吉问爽（黄子华饰），女人最喜欢做的事？爽回答说：“发脾气和购物”。最后唐补充说：“谈心事”。我本人是觉得很妙啦。基本上，前两样我都常做，最后一样相对的比较少。但我很赞成，女人会很想和自己心爱的人谈心事，分享内心的感受。偏偏我家老爷就像剧中人物爽一样，对女人这一样喜好并不了解。唐吉说：“对女人，不止要“哄”，还要“媾”， 不过不是“媾女”，而是“沟通”啦。” 有时候真的很希望，老爷可以多多奉行“哄”和“沟”这两个字。
多数的男人，都喜欢什么都“收收埋埋”。他们不会主动说出来，他们总觉得身边的女人会了解。爱，也放在心里。可是他们不懂，女人绝大部分都喜欢“行动派”吗？试想想，两个人同时喜欢一个女人，一个暗恋，一个展开追求，试想想谁的成功率高一些？
保，我赞成你所说的，可是我本身比较喜欢和女性朋友谈心事，因为我觉得对男人谈心事似乎舒缓不了自己的情绪，因为他们的想法不同，在我们觉得很懊恼的东西，他们可能会觉得小事一宗。所以正确来说，女人要的不止是说心事而已，重点是说完心事得到认同或开解才是女人真正需要的！
ReplyDelete燕，你说的也很对。跟女性好友谈心的确比较畅快，有认同感，可以得到较正面的回应，借此也抒发了自己的情绪。不过跟自己的男人谈心，主要是一种沟通咯。借此让双方知道了解彼此的想法、要求；重点不是得到认同，而是向对方表达自己的想法。就像我常对老爷说，他不一定得认同我的想法做法(当然可以会更好)，但我希望他可以至少了解明白咯。
ReplyDeleteThis is so true! haha...
ReplyDeleteDo you still have the show? Can I borrow?
So what are we baking this Sat? I bought some ingredients for brownies last wkend... Hee Hee
Bo, I think your laoye is a very straight forward kind of guy, who doesn't like to sweet talk a lot. Action speaks louder than words. He is very practical (like buy you nice things, always picks up the bill when dining with your friends, etc...)He loves you a lot therefore he "ai wo ji wo" :)
ReplyDeleteTo me, these things are more important than sweet talking. We always think that you got a hao laogong. You guys are always so sweet :)
I like WongziHua also. think that he is quite talented acting in this kind of character. Super Funny.
ReplyDeleteWan Fen, I wanna ask you what to bake also... maybe we can do cheese cake also? since i have the recipe I can go to buy those ingredient =D Remind me to bring you 《绝代商娇》to copy this Sat =D
ReplyDeleteYann, of course i wish my laoye can do some sweet talk sometimes, but it's not a must la =D but my main concern is not really "sweetalking", in fact is more a sharing of thoughts and feelings lor =D
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ReplyDeletelet me watching《绝代商娇》, then i will know more about 麦提爽的金玉良言. hehe.
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